We all want to be good, valuable and respected by others. But there are some who can not do this. They can not do it because they fail to understand some of the things they need to do for themselves. In the following, you will know 5 things you need to do for yourself to make your life prosperous. The five actions are as follows.
1. Love yourself
Many people always want to be loved, even if they do not care about themselves
at all. Before you can be loved by others, you must love yourself. It's not
wrong for us to be able to help others, we need to help ourselves to be strong
first. If we do not know how to swim, how can we help a drowning person? So in
return you need to look at yourself and take good care of yourself both
physically and mentally. Every day, you have to clean and decorate your body
properly and show your dignified, moral, ethical and lovable attitude.
2. Respect yourself
It sounds a little strange to the ears. We often hear that we respect others,
but why should we respect ourselves? Like the first point above, before others
respect us, we must first respect ourselves. We respect ourselves by
respecting our own decisions, our own words, and our own actions by taking
full responsibility for them. Speaking and behaving with dignity is
self-respect. When others see us respecting ourselves, they will respect us.
Instead, imagine that if we do not respect our own words, for example, like do
action in the different way of speaking or by breaking a promise, is this
self-respect? Clearly not, and if we do not respect our own words, who should
respect our words?
3. Value and praise yourself
A person who does not know how to value himself will be worthless in the eyes
of others as well. We must always love and value ourselves. If we wait for
others to value us, we will be disappointed. Why disappoint? Because everyone
has a different opinion of us. For example, this person thinks we are good,
but other thinks we are bad. So you are a noble person, worthy of respect or
not, part of that is up to you. The question to ask yourself now is,
"Do you know how to make yourself worth yet?"
4. Forgive yourself
We all know that there is no human being who has never made a mistake. But
there are some who do not know how to tolerate themselves. They keep blaming
themselves till causing emotional problems. We must learn to forgive
ourselves. But this does not mean that we find excuses to cover up our
mistakes. What we do wrong, we must take responsibility for it. Taking
responsibility for that mistake is to value and tolerate ourselves. So, no
matter how big the problem, we must put that mistake aside and work hard to
keep going until we reach our goal.
5. Recognize yourself
Self-recognition is essential. People who do not recognize themselves are the
most cowardly. This kind of person likes to take the life example of others to
equip themselves. No matter what our appearance, color, or lineage, we must
acknowledge and enjoy what our parents have offered. The important thing is
not to compare ourselves with others. They are them, we are us, we are not
like them because they are not like us. We need to acknowledge the
individuality of each person. How they live is their thing, while we need to
find out how to live our lives in a way that makes us happy. Finally, remember
that if we want to change ourselves for the better, we must first know
ourselves. And to know ourselves, we must try to understand and find the weak
and strong point of ourselves.
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- Written by: Oknha Chea Tong Hour
- Translated by: KhmerSide